if you discount LG’s from your accounts of biphobia then either you are very lucky to have never experienced that or you are internalizing something gross
On a friend inadvertently discovering I’m bi
Interesting story from, what, if memory serves, was Monday night.
So, a friend of mine from the LGBT society (this society, incidentally, being the only people who know about my sexuality) invited a bunch of people from the society and other places over to his, and then out to a club for his half birthday (since his birthday is in the summer).
Another friend of mine from my course, who’s been having a kinda tough week (or had been, rather), also wanted to come out, so I decided to ask if she wanted to come here. Which she did. And she brought wine, which I don’t normally drink, but when you don’t have the money for alcohol and are surrounded by people you don’t know, then hey, you take what you can get.
So later in the night, she goes out for a cigarette, I go with her cause she wants to talk about some stuff. So we do our fair share of bitching, and I wind up telling her that my ex-girlfriend was bi.
“I don’t really trust bisexual people.”
I really just wanted to scream at her for that, but I didn’t, because it was in public and all. I really do regret not reacting probably as opposed to just quietly disagreeing.
Just before we go to the club, the guy who invited everyone over (who at this point is fairly intoxicated), turns and says to me “don’t tell everyone in LGBT that I was this drunk.” And so we laughed about that, and then one of his friends, who I actually knew, asked, in totally good nature, if I was gay. So I politely corrected her and said that I was bi.
After that, I turned to that friend who made the remark about not trusting bisexual people and just said, “feel free to stop trusting me now.”
And I think what’s great is that I don’t care how she reacts to that.
So,… Yeah, that was just a little story I felt like sharing
what the fuck even is my sexuality: the musical
including great hits such as
oh no he’s hot
oh shit she’s hot too
why is everyone hot
and everyone’s favorite
how did i used to think i was straight?